as u guys know, this issue has been pretty popular lately, from berbagi suami to kyais that marries a better looking and younger girl than their wifes and justify it as an act of religion. u know what i think of that? thats bull!!!!! load of crap. i am sure that hurting ur wife , dishonouring your wife, betraying ur wife by having 2nd wife, by not being loyal is not allowed in any religion. prophets may had several wifes, but we are not prophets and we are not living in the past, even those days woman cant say no to anything, we are human not animals, we were created paired, means we can only have 1 partner.

i watched a show just now that talks about polygamy, this polygamy guy who has 3-4 wifes answered that he's doing polygamy cuz he wants to share a sense of leadership, after he succeed in making his wife to be sakinah its his duty to help non sakinah woman to be sakinah by making them his wifes. and he said he's doing a volunteer work by doing so. hmmm to help woman to be sakinah doesnt mean you have to marry them sir!

a woman who backs polygamy got asked, "so what if your husband is doing a polygamy and you get farless attention than the other wifes, can you accept that?", instead of answering if she accepts or not, she answered "ya ya ya to do polygamy you have to share each wifes financially equal,mm ya about feelings yes it can be different" , "so you sincerely accept that if your husband give more attention to other wifes other than you and have more feelings?", she answered "mmm ya that is very normal", "so you are ok with that?", "hahaha thats your conclusion", "(smiled) so whats your point?do u accept it or not?", she answered "ya once again, its very normal, the best thing is to ask from experienced people, but if you asked me what i want is to share it to other people". the woman stuttered, she didnt know what to answer, its a very simple question, with a possible answer such as "yes im ok with that", "no im not ok with that", just answer the freakin question.. its very clear that you are not ready yourself mam, maybe you dont want to give any ideas to your husband incase he's watching that ur saying you are ok with that. in ur deepest heart, i bet ur not ok with that.

to ME,
polygamy is an act of wanting to sex more woman, nothing else.
you were sworn to love your wife to death, to be loyal, to love her in poor and in rich, health and sick, in any situation. means you cant have another wife! you have to stick to your wife no matter what happens, if you do not feel the same again, if you are attracted to another woman, than thats your incompetence of sticking to your own words and to your own vowes! your incompetence to control yourself. whats with polygamy is a way to stop husbands from screwing and cheating???? i dont get it, oooo pleaseeee woman, wifes, if they do cheat or screw other woman/girls, that is not your fault, that is their ego and their weakness, they are unable to control themselves, most especially their D***! that means he's not worth your freaking love and attention!!! and your TIME!! accept that! it is stupid and self degrading to allow husbands to do polygamy to stop them from cheating and screwing, means polygamy is a legitimate way of cheating! polygamy is not being loyal to the 1st wife! if you think so, that means you're lying to urself ladies. u are there with him as his wife, but he's not really there with you, he already has a newer, younger, fresh, better looking girl than you, accept that, accept the fact, so dont be fooling yourself with crap like he's being loyal.

whats with polygamy is a way to help woman who hasnt been married, spinster, widow???. ooo heyyyyyy look she's 32 and she's still single, i have to help her by marrying her. whats wrong with woman who hasnt been married or dont want to be married??? is it wrong? NO!!!, whats wrong with widow? is it negative? is it wrong? NO!! our society makes it look like its bad, stereotyping. being not married is better than being a 2nd wife, being widow is better than being a 2nd wife.. at least their sticking to their dignity of not being a 2nd wife.. why be a 2nd wife when u can be the 1st??? from what i see, they must be very hopeless and heartless. i agree very much to this woman who disagreed with polygamy, she said "whats wrong with being not married and a widow?in God's eyes doesnt mean if you are a 2nd wife you are better than the ones whos not married, there is no guarantee if you are married you are better than the ones whose not"

about the guy who just got married to his 2nd wife, i remember few months back, i watched him on a infotainment commenting on polygamy, from what i remember he said "i disagree with it, if i think of it, it would hurt my wife, i would think of how she would feel if i do it, i asked my wife how would you feel if im married again, she would feel really sad". and look at him now, he's married already. I guess words dont mean a thing huh, even from his mouth.

i have so much to say, but im out of words right now.. i just dont get it, will never get it and i disagrees with it. its a load of crap. i hate polygamy, any sort of way of cheating, its very selfish, degrading woman, disrecpectful, all the negatives.

im really sorry if this post offend anyone, this is my expression.